Men suck at sex

Well I made a profile on this sex website about a year ago. I recently went back and saw these journal entries I wrote and wanted them here. Here’s one.

How did this happen? Who told men that inserting a penis in a vagina is the only way to pleasure a woman? Why does nobody teach a man how to explore a woman’s body? We have all these “men” running around clueless on what good sex is. Men who think foreplay is only for middle schoolers and virgins. Men who think their penis is the only sexy part of their body. Men who think silent sex is ok. Men who expect a woman to endure pain just because that’s what they do on porn. Why are we letting porn instruct our men on how to treat a woman in bed, or in the car, or at the movies…… I don’t want to see your penis. I really don’t. I barely know if I want it inside me. What I want is for you to find the places on my body that gets me hot. Just because I’m wetter than any girl you’ve ever been with does not mean I’m turned on and enjoying myself. I need you to take 2 seconds to calm down and control your hormones so you can focus on what I actually enjoy. If I’m laying down not moving, not looking at you, not making any sounds do you really think you’re doing everything right? Hell Nah!!! I am bored nigga. You need to get your fuckin life. You talk all this mess about how you’re gonna make me scream, and you can’t wait to see me squirming and shaking then when it comes down to it you can’t even find my clit…. And that’s if you even know what a clit is…I’m so frustrated waiting to find a man who knows what to do or at least has enough self control to figure out what to do instead of hungrily trying to fulfill your fantasies with my body. Honestly I’m not looking for the finest man on earth. Your actions make your physical appearance more or less attractive. Just be decent looking, take care of your body (I cannot deal with fat men) and give my body what it wants!

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4 thoughts on “Men suck at sex

  1. Hmmm sounds like you’ve just been with a bunch of losers. Trust me, many of us know exactly what we’re doing, we know what a clit is, we know most women dont even penetrate themselves during masturbation which means clit stimulation is obviously the way to start things off after foreplay. We know our tongues are more effective than our cocks and we use them and we love to cause theres seriously nothing hotter than having a woman moan and shake uncontrollably, while her eyes roll back into her head, and when we thrust deep into that pussy, we know to kiss and bite that neck and suck on those tits and french kiss ya. Just stop tapping losers hun, get yourself a man!

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    1. Lol this was written a long time ago. I’ve since realized I really need an emotional connection. Also men my age are very focused on self pleasure, but I have met some who try. My blog is really for myself so I can track my feelings and how I’ve grown over time. That’s why I said I wanted it here, for me, not necessarily for anyone else to see. But thank you for taking the time to read it and offering me advice 🙂 I really appreciate it. Not exactly sure where I’d find said man though because I’ve also realized age doesn’t mean everything.

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